May 112014
 

Wishing all the mothers, aunts, grandmas, dear friends and all those who help make the job of mothering and nurturing children possible a very Happy Mother’s Day!

The above viral video clip made me laugh til’ I cried. While everyone mothers in a different way there were some sentiments in this video that rang incredibly true for me. Hope it brings you a smile as well.

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May 122013
 
A Mother's Day card with a personal touch.

A Mother’s Day card with a personal touch.

Happy Mother’s Day!

While I am away from my own mother and mother-in-law today, I wanted to share with you our attempt to send a bouquet of hugs to them for all the love and support we receive from them on a constant basis.

Our family is blessed with tons of amazing women and Mother’s Day is our chance to recognize all of the important work that not only our mothers do but also anyone who engages in the difficult, unpaid and under-appreciated work of nurturing and loving people that is so vital to us all.

I went looking for an idea for a Mother’s Day card and found Martha Stewart’s treasure trove of handmade Mother’s Day card ideas. To me, Mother’s Day conjures up a sort of nostalgic, old-fashioned vibe. We are reconnecting with fundamental notions of nurturing and love that have existed throughout time. I thought Martha’s ideas were lovely and I particularly liked her pressed pansy notecards. The only problem was, we don’t have any pansies in our garden.

But looking around, I realized that we had no shortage of blossoms to admire. In Virginia, we are just finishing azalea and dogwood season.

Azaleas in bloom.

Azaleas in bloom.

The dogwood blossom is the state flower of Virginia.

The dogwood blossom is the state flower of Virginia.

So, I thought we would try using flowers from our own garden for an extra personal touch on our cards.

I gathered up some enthusiastic flower-pickers.

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Cutting the dogwood blossoms.

Cutting the dogwood blossoms.

Martha suggested that you include some leaves along with your flowers when you press them and that was a wonderful tip. Kids in particular just want to focus on the flowers but we made sure we cut a few stems with leaves as well. We also included a few “weeds” like dandelions and buttercups in our flower pressing.

In the past, I have experimented with various methods of pressing and drying leaves. The best method for preserving color was another tip from Martha to use the old-fashioned tried and true method of pressing the flowers in a large book between waxed paper. When I was a kid, my parents had a huge dictionary that we always used for this purpose.

For this project, we lined the phone book with plastic wrap (I was all out of waxed paper) and put our flowers in.

Pressing flowers in the phone book.

Pressing flowers in the phone book.

My son was not so into the flower picking aspect of this project but boy did he have fun pulling out the plastic wrap!

It's a good thing we have plenty of plastic wrap!

It’s a good thing we have plenty of plastic wrap!

Then, we gathered up all the “heavy” books in the house. My daughters knew instantly which books to choose. Many of these aren’t books we read regularly and I was surprised to see how readily they knew which books in the house were the heaviest. We piled them up high.

The pressing tower.

The pressing tower.

After about a week’s worth of pressing, my children were excited to see what had happened to our flowers.

Unpiling the book stack.

Unpiling the book stack.

As expected, the colors were beautifully preserved with this method.

The pressed flowers after about 1 week.

The pressed flowers after about 1 week.

We used a variety of craft supplies from around the house to turn them into cards. Some designs were simple and others more complex. I love how all of them turned out!

A simple dogwood blossom.

A simple dogwood blossom.

Getting a little fancier with an azalea bouquet, some glitter and decorative stitching from the sewing machine.

Getting a little fancier with an azalea bouquet, some glitter and decorative stitching from the sewing machine.

A mixed flower bouquet.

A mixed flower bouquet.

We mailed them out just in the nick of time and it seems that the postal service came through for us and got them delivered promptly.

Thinking today of all the people who support and inspire me in my work as a mother– my steadfast and patient husband; the tremendous examples from grandmothers, mothers, aunts, sisters, sisters-in-law, cousins and dear friends; the love and support from the men in my life–my dad, father-in-law, uncles, brothers-in-law, cousins and friends; and of course, my precious children, the lights of my lives who provide me with no end of creative challenges, questions to answer and the deepest love. Love and thanks to you all!

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May 042012
 

Just in time for Mother's Day, my pink peonies have bloomed. Consider planting something to honor the marvelous mother in your life!

While we may tend to think of the “holiday season” in December, one of the most important holidays of the year is now upon us . . . Mother’s Day! Mother’s Day is one of those holidays that you cannot miss. After reading Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother I can no longer think of Mother’s Day without thinking of Amy Chua’s instructions to her daughters on her birthday:

“I don’t want this. I want a better one – one that you’ve put some thought and effort into. . . . I deserve better than this. So I reject this.”

–Amy Chua, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother

Fortunately, none of the mothers I shop for are Tiger Mothers but I think the sentiment rings a bit true for all mothers. Motherhood is one of the most underappreciated jobs on the planet and even with an entire national day of recognition for it, it just doesn’t seem like enough. There is no card or gift we can give that adequately says thanks for all the things mothers do for us in our lives.

But just because we can’t achieve perfection in thanking our mothers, does not excuse us from our Mother’s Day obligations. We are now down to the last weekend before Mother’s Day and it is time to get our gifts together.

Last year, I wrote an exhaustive list of Mother’s Day gift suggestions.

This year, I will just share some of the interesting graden-related links that crossed my inbox this year:

  • Wayside Gardens (Romance the garden with peonies, roses) – How thoughtful would it be if you planted something in her garden (easy to grow, please!) that would bloom every year on Mother’s Day? In the DC area, peonies or rhododendrons would fit the bill nicely.
  • Gump’s – Enchanted Garden Accessories. Another low-maintenance garden item would be a piece of statuary. Gump’s cranes are particularly elegant.
  • IKEA posted numerous affordable gift ideas for Mother’s Day, including a small greenhouse to grow herbs in.
  • Cartier – on the other end of the expense spectrum, you could always help mom garden in style with a chic pair of rimless sunglasses or a beautiful floral perfume.
  • Michaels – for handmade projects for mom from kids or others (including garden stepping stones).

Mom-oriented Charitable Donations (also consider donating to any charity your mom favors):

What are your favorite Mother’s Day gifts to send or receive? Please share in the comments.

P.S. As always, I have no affiliation with any of the stores or organizations mentioned above (except Amazon).

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